This week Kayce was hospitalized with respiratory issues. It’s a battle he has fought once before about two years ago. One we were hopeful would never happen again. Alas, this was not the case.
Anyone who has ever spent time in a hospital or known someone who has, their immediate reaction is to want to leave and go home. Well not this time. Not this kid. When the doctor was set to discharge him and asked him if he was ready to go home, he quickly responded “no”. The doctor was completely floored. It was an answer I don’t think she had heard before.
Physically, he was doing better, not great, but better. We could continue the same treatments they were providing to him from home. Then why would a 7 year old kid not want to sprint out the door and head for the comforts of home? It was an answer right under our noses but not one we expected. While I was manning the ship at home and tending to the other 3 Grimm Boys, Dawn was dedicated to being with Kayce. As his situation escalated Office > ER > Hospital admission, Dawn was there by his side. Receiving an undivided attention from his Mother he had not in 5+ years.
With this distraction and brother free time, Dawn and Kayce utilized every precious minute. Board games, late night movies, talking about friends, life, goals and just plain joking around. Talk about lifting a sick kid’s spirits. A little bonding time with Mom is just what the doctor ordered. And Kayce was not ready to give that up.
In our constant struggle to be the best parents we know how Dawn and I try to give attention to each of our 4 boys. Sometimes we lose sight of the need to give each (especially the twins) some undivided attention. We had talked before summer about taking each kid out for a night on their own. I think this reinforces the need to follow through with that plan.
Edwards Hospital in Naperville was exceptional in every facet of childcare. Beautiful and clean facilities. A dedicated playroom. Daily treats delivered from local bakeries. Most importantly, attentive and caring staff. If I ever have to go to the hospital I’m requesting the pediatric unit at Edwards!
From July 4th on, the summer completely got away from us. Gone in an instant. Which I suppose is the sign of a good time. No dragging.
With that we now have 4 kids attending schools. Dawn will get some much needed quiet time for at least a couple hours in the morning. Freeing her up to study, complete an assignment or just fly solo to the grocery store. Sometimes, it’s the little things.
Conor – Kindergarten
This one, not like the first. Very independent and no parent tether here. By day 2 he was requesting not to be walked up to school. Something I couldn’t shake #1 from for 2 years.
Devin – Preschool
Dakota – Preschool
What can I say, been busy enjoying the Summer of 2014.
We have been busy busy with the likes of: beach trips, new jobs, swim lessons, sports galore, gardening, library visits, laughing, riding, playing, sliding, reading, writing and block partying.
This past week though felt like one I just could not let fall away into the ether. So many accomplishments I did n0t want to miss documenting. Kayce had been looking to go off the diving board at our local watering hole. Asking for weeks. Well, much to our surprise, he went for it at a friends party. And it has been non-stop ever since. He also got his first new bike since about age 2. It was much needed and the only requirements he gave was it had to be “blue”. AT 20″ it’s just slightly big for his size, but that has not stopped him from wanting to get out on it and ride ride ride.
Kayce and Conor also got to take in their first proper concert. We made it out to Wicker Park Fest to check out Exit Verse. Close family friend and all around great dude, Pete plays bass. As well, a musician I have been attentively following for decades, Geoff Farina plays guitar and sings. So it was a real treat for me to introduce the boys to live music in this setting. My first show was Milli Vanilli at Poplar Creek…THANKS LIZ!
We also welcomed new life into the family. Baby Colette was born on Friday 7/28. Baby girls are a rare commodity in the Grimm bloodline so this was extra special.
Have you checked out the sting ray petting exhibit at Brookfield Zoo? It’s worth the extra cost.
Reading chapter books to the kids is nothing new. Recently though, it’s all we have been reading to the older boys. We still break for the occasional Berenstein Bear story for Kayce. He’s obsessed with them. It’s great to see him pick them up on his own and read now. I don’t know what they put in the water in 1st grade, but it’s made a huge difference on his reading ability.
We have been digging in to a lot of “chapter books” recently. It has been non-stop Roald Dahl (I might have something to do with that). See, I unearthed a bunch of old keepsakes from Mom & Dad’s and in loot were some of my classics. We started with The BFG. Just finished Charlie and The Chocolate Factory. Now we are deep into James and the Giant Peach. What chapter books have you read with your kids? Any recommendations? I was thinking Charlotte’s Web is next on the hit list. What’s next??